Your Relationship Cannot Survive Secrets
Rarely will any relationship survive on secrets. It is very common that after you have been dating a person for only a short while, you get a good idea of their lifestyle.Worth noting, however, is the fact that there may be some dark secrets he isn’t willing to let you know about.If you suspect that something doesn’t connect and you wonder what he is hiding, look out for some telltale signs.
There may be many reasons as to why he has not let you know about his parents.First, he might want to avoid the topic in case you would like to meet his parents. He may not get along well with the parents for reasons he wants to keep in secrecy.Whatever the reason is, you must establish where they come from and where they grew up so that you can continue with the relationship.
So long as you don’t know his friends, do not be at peace. Do not rest if he has never introduced you the friends he always talks about meeting.Actually, he may be using the friends as proxy for covering someone important in his life or a bad habit.Again, He might actually have friends but may be afraid you will not approve of them, or they may not approve of you.Whatever makes up for the reason if you would know the truth, you might need to use some force to see clearly.
He may never talk about his work.He may not be working or may be doing what he didn’t say he does.
If he doesn’t mention his exs’ name, be worried. There may be very many reasons why he will not want you to know the names.The first reason may be that they are still in touch.Again, it may be possible that they messed up in previous relationships, and hate to brag about their mistakes. For whatever reason that may be the case, establish and ensure that there is nothing dangerous in secrecy.
Your newly found man might have a very dark past or even a secret. It is not good to rule out the possibility that your man may simply be shy. Worth noting is the fact that as long as a man is serious in the relationship, he will scarcely hesitate to take you to his home so that you know the place and how he lives. He can also drop you by to see his place.
Whenever you wonder why your new man is very secretive, simply look out for these signs and ensure he is not trying to keep you in the dark.